Seeking friends first, a cuddle, then eventually...? from imjnur's blog

I'm just looking for human touch and intimacy (respect and comfort with each other)

In many ways I'm also just looking for friends. I am a shy man and find it difficult to start a conversation with someone new. Heck, sometimes even with someone I know! Plus, I'm a tactile person but fear making people uncomfortable if my touch isn't welcome (a hand on their arm or shoulder while talking; a hug hello, etc.)

Making new friends is very difficult, especially if you're looking for something outside the "ordinary." Mostly looking for friends with the potential of leading to more intimate friends. Cuddling and touch is very important to us as humans, and I'm definitely missing that these days.

Looking back I realize that it was much easier to make friends in college. They were often the people you were around all the time; sharing classes and activities and meals. Lots of time to chat and get to know them. As an adult-wallflower it's very difficult.

Would love to chat with some folks and see what may happen.

Best wishes everyone!
J

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By imjnur
Added Dec 16 '18

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